Thursday, July 27, 2023

Resting or Wrestling?

 



By: Donna Bucher


Many people lament their lack of ability in hearing God speak to them regarding decisions or the need for direction in their lives. Admittedly, I felt much the same way for many years, until realizing I had no problem hearing God's direction. My problem centered on reluctance in moving forward when I still held so many unanswered questions.

The need for answers paralyzed my efforts at obedience, strapping me to a defeated walk by sight rather than by faith. A mindset that not only hindered my spiritual walk but kept me in a perpetual cycle of anxiety and control seeking. Resting in God without all the answers seemed both my ultimate freedom and my worst nightmare.

Yet apart from a place of rest, or abiding in Christ, moving forward felt more like a wrestling match than confident, well-directed obedience.

Regardless of the many definitions or ideas we entertain about rest, resting in God without all the answers requires a level of abandonment we often avoid choosing. Incorporating the following five mindful attitudes positions us for a walk based in faith, not sight.

"For thus saith the Lord God, the Holy One of Israel; In returning and rest shall ye be saved; in quietness and in confidence shall be your strength: and ye would not."

Regardless of the many definitions or ideas we entertain about rest, resting in God without all the answers requires a level of abandonment we often avoid choosing. Incorporating the following five mindful attitudes positions us for a walk based in faith, not sight.

  • Rest involves silence. Not outward silence; the silence in your soul. Anxiety, questions, fear, and control seeking cause soul disturbance. What needs silencing in your soul? Resting in God means silencing the noise in your soul. "Truly my soul finds rest in God; my salvation comes from him." (Psalm 62:1)
  • Rest involves stillness. The noise of emotion in your soul often speaks louder than God's still, small voice. Drawing you away from God's Word resulting in responses of fear, shame, defensiveness, or anxiety. Stillness of soul involves pausing quietly before God, so His voice speaks peace to your soul storm. "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." (John 14:27)
  • Rest involves dying to self. Choosing anxiety or worry over resting in God without all the answers cripples your faith and trust in God. Relinquishing your need for answers to all your what ifs, how to’s and questions involves dying to the selfish need for control. Placing your cares in God's hands opens the door for soul rest. "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." (1Peter 5:7)
  • Rest involves a place of quiet. Separating yourself from the noise and distraction around you, provides a place to hear and dispel the noise of your soul. Busyness keeps you in avoidance mode, unable to properly confront the true issues troubling your soul. "But I have calmed and quieted myself, I am like a weaned child with its mother; like a weaned child I am content." (Psalm 131:2)
  • Rest involves faith. Walking by faith means trusting God's timing in His revealing all you need to know for each step of your journey. Surrendering your need for all the answers before you step out in faith leads to truly resting in God.

Lingering in these five mindful attitudes of rest provided a nourishing respite from the soul noise stealing my peace. Shifting my perspective from a "need to know" all the answers before resting, to a "need to trust" God for the answers unfolding with each step of faith and obedience.

 

Reflection:

Where are you struggling to simply abide or rest in God’s direction today?

Which one of the five mindful attitudes seems most helpful to you in your current situation?







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