Saturday, April 27, 2024

Season of Waiting

By: Grace Metzger

 For God alone, O my soul, wait in
 silence, for my hope is from Him.
Psalm 62:5 ESV

I’ve recently been very interested in the story of Hannah. Her story has always made me a bit sad, she spent years begging for a child only to still be unable to get pregnant. Not only was she unable to get pregnant, but instead of having support and love given to her during this time of struggle, the Bible says she was provoked and mocked. Hannah continued to pray to God, in fact she was so focused on speaking with God that no words even came out of her mouth making Eli assume she was drunk! God didn’t forget Hannah and she became pregnant with Samuel very soon after her prayer.



The reason this story has been on my mind lately is because I’ve recently seen a lot of people in a season of waiting. Being forced to wait isn’t easy on anyone and it can cause a lot of people to struggle in their walk with God. It’s human nature to want to take control and fix everything, at least it’s something that I definitely try to do when I’m going through something.

Wait for the Lord; be strong and
take heart and wait for the Lord.
Psalms 27:14 CSB

This verse instructions us on exactly how we should handle a season of waiting. Being strong, taking heart, and waiting on God. This is very much an easier said then done situation. I know for me, the longer I wait, the more doubt creeps into my mind, and where doubt lives faith is absent. I started really struggling with this recently, waiting forever prompts more and more thoughts in my mind like, "What if this isn't God's plan for me?" 

Those kind of thoughts can quickly become a powerful thing if allowed, they can place doubt on God's power, God's plans for you, and most importantly God's love for you. So how do we even stop this? How do we ensure we stay away from this?

For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord. Plans
to prosper you and not to harm you, plans for hope and a future.
Jeremiah 29:11 NIV

I wish I could answer this with a quick one step plan on the easiest and best ways to wait patiently in God's presence, but sadly, I don't believe it can be done that easy. I don't think there's a magic button that makes you patient. Like many things in your walk with Christ, it takes time and effort. By putting in the time and effort into my walk with Christ, I found I didn't have the time or energy to worry about the unknown future.

By focusing on God and putting my mind on Him, my mind was no longer worried or in doubt. Instead it was strength because of the fact that I was putting in time to make my relationship with God. Instead of crying over my situation, I prayed with God. Instead of spending time worrying, I spent time reading my Bible. These things work, trust me! I have had a lot of waiting this year, I feel like this whole year I have been stuck in a season of waiting. But when I started putting in the time and effort into my relationship with God, it was so much better, happier, and last fearful then when I was putting the time and effort into my worry. So if you find yourself in a season of waiting, just start replacing those negative thoughts with prayers, start replacing the time spent pacing the living room with time spent in ministry. 


Discussion:

What do you do when you find yourself in a season of waiting?



Friday, April 26, 2024

Wonder With Them

 By: Lauren Thomas 

“We’re in the slow lane,” I heard Gigi say contentedly. We were sitting down to eat at a hole-in-the-wall, Thai restaurant. It was a big party: my family of 5, our best friends’ family of 6, and their parents – affectionately known as Gigi and Papa. Between us, there were 7 children ranging in age from a few months old to 8 years old. Getting all of us seated was a challenge, to say the least. I was overstimulated and feeling way too tightly wound.

 

But when I heard her words, I melted inside.


 

It was okay that this was hard, that this was taking time. She gave permission and validation for that. She normalized it. And I could finally relax. No amount of rushing or stressing would speed things up. No amount of effort would get things on my timeline. Kids are just slow: slow with busyness. They’re busy taking everything in. They’re busy learning. They’re busy being amazed by everything around them. So why not just slow down too? Why not stop trying to drive fast behind them?

 

Her words echoed something I had recently felt in my spirit: “Wonder with them.” 

 

Kids are full of wonder. The smallest things can cause “wonder eruptions”: “Look mommy, a rainbow on the wall!” “Look mommy, a truck!” “Look mommy, a cat [even when it’s the same cat you’ve seen outside every day for 2 years]!” 

 

I admit, these things often felt more like “wonder interruptions,” slowing me down; rather than “wonder eruptions,” little explosions of wonder.

 

But that week, I kept hearing the Lord speak: “wonder with them.” 

 

Why did it matter?

 

  1. When God says something, it matters.
  2. “Wondering with them” fosters connection between parent/child and increases emotional/relational security for the child.
  3. “Wondering with them” slows me down (the opposite of frustration, frazzle, and rush! – all words that describe me too often).
  4. “Wondering with them” encourages the kind of childlikeness that Jesus praised in Matthew 18:2-4. Here, the lowly humility of a child is the way to receive the Kingdom. 

 

So, I will wonder with them. And in so doing, I will humble myself. I will open myself to wonder. And I will let myself be in awe of God. I will wonder with them and wonder AT HIM!

 

And amazement seized them all, and they glorified God and were filled with awe, saying, “We have seen extraordinary things today.”

Luke 5:26 ESV

 

“Who is like you, O Lord, among the gods?
    Who is like you, majestic in holiness,
    awesome in glorious deeds, doing wonders?

Exodus 15:11 ESV

 

Reflection:

When was the last time you experienced wonder? What caused your wonder?

What is one way you can be in awe of God today?




Thursday, April 25, 2024

Spring's Hope for Spiritual Renewal

 




By: Donna Bucher


Pondering the timid entrance of Spring in these chilly days of April, my mind continues returning to the theme of renewal. Awed and inspired by the resiliency of creation as new life pops up in even the untidiest of gardens. I wonder at spring’s hope for renewing the dry places in my own spiritual garden.

A vital component of a mature Christian’s walk with God, the need for spiritual renewal often goes unnoticed. But spring’s hope for renewing the dry places in creation, also invites us into a closer look at the needs of our own spiritual garden.

Seasons of life take their toll on our spiritual garden in the same way the change of meteorological seasons and harsh weather conditions challenge creation.

Trials, prolonged suffering, illness, and pressures of everyday life create the need for spiritual renewal. Spring’s hope in creation reminds us renewing the dry places in our spiritual lives brings the refreshment we need after harsh seasonal changes.


Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.

2 Corinthians 4:16


Due to our sin nature and separation from God, our physical bodies deteriorate day by day moving towards ultimate physical death. But God sent His Son, Jesus, to purchase our redemption, providing eternal life for our spiritual inner man. (John 3:16)

In Christ, God provides the way to renewal of the inner, spiritual man, which will one day become evident, springing forth from the dead remains of our physical bodies.

In the meantime, embracing spring’s hope for spiritual renewal, helps us tend our spiritual gardens. As I pulled away dead stems and debris from around a few of the Jacob’s Ladders in our garden, my thoughts turned towards the wounded and dry places in my own spirit.

Sometimes the winters of life leave us with the debris of hurts, frustrations, and even neglect which requires attention if we want continued spiritual growth.

How can we experience spiritual renewal? By first understanding God promised renewal, and only He can provide the renewal we need. True spiritual renewal comes only from spending time in God’s Presence and the Word of God.

Keeping up with life, provides one of the reasons we end up stuck with spiritual barrenness. I often have awareness of a few spiritual dry places, but instead of stopping, I push on ahead keeping all the balls in the air.

Before long, my spiritual garden becomes an unkempt, tangled mess. Try incorporating the following mindfulness exercises as a way of regularly renewing the spiritual dry places.

Relinquish. Set aside your schedule, demands, responsibilities long enough to bring awareness to those areas feeling dry, wounded, and broken.

Rest. In God’s Presence. Allow the feelings of dryness or emptiness to come to the surface. Consider your real needs around the wounded and broken places. Meditate on God’s steadfast love for you. (Lamentations3:22-23)

Reflect. Where exactly is renewal most needed? Where are you most weary?


Intentionally set aside time over the course of a few days, even five or ten minutes at the end of your daily quiet time, or as you close out your evening. Keep your Bible close by, and a journal or scratch pad.

Avoid approaching your spiritual garden as a problem which needs fixing, but rather with a curious, loving gaze. As you sit quietly, breathe slowly and deeply, allowing the Holy Spirit these moments for refreshing and reviving you.

The beauty of spring’s hope for spiritual renewal comes through the nurturing of the Holy Spirit. His gentleness with your wounded, parched places, brings refreshment and healing. Fostering new, spiritual growth from the very places which seemed so barren.

But you must surrender to the caring hand of the Master Gardener, who alone knows your deepest needs for revival. Whose hands mold times and seasons, calling forth life buried deep within the withered, weary places of your heart.

Reflection:

Where are you feeling most spiritually dry?

What troubles you the most about your spiritual garden?




 





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Wednesday, April 24, 2024

What Your Pastor's Wife Needs From You

By: Jenifer Metzger

Pastor's wives. The First Lady of the church. The mother of the church. They are special. They have a calling on their lives just as much as their husband, the pastor, does and they need us.

I come from a family of pastors. My mom is a lead pastor at her church. My husband has been a children's pastor, an associate pastor, and is now a ministry associate at our church. I have served alongside my husband as children's pastor as well as been a children's pastor myself when he stepped into role of associate pastor. I've also served on some incredible ministry teams with amazing women.

What your pastor's wife needs from you #pastorswife #pastor

Today I want to share ways you can come along side your pastor's wife and help her. 

Pray for her. She needs your fervent and intentional prayers. Pray over her ministry, her family, her health, her mental state, her relationships, her finances, her marriage, her joy, pray over every area that comes to mind as you lift her to Jesus. She needs your prayers.

Offer a helping hand. So often people assume the pastor and his wife will take care of everything. I cannot tell you how many times I've heard phrases like, "They do nothing all day, they can do it." That is far from the truth. If your pastor's wife is the church secretary, ask if you can stop by and help with any office work for an afternoon. If she cleans the church, offer to help with the cleaning. If she has little ones, offer your babysitting services so she can have a free day. If you know she's had a busy week, offer to bring a meal for her family. She needs your help.

Don't assume roles. For many years in many churches, the pastor's wife was the one who played the piano or lead the women's ministry or was the office secretary. It was just assumed they would fill these roles. But that isn't always the case. Maybe her calling is different. Don't assume she will fill a traditional "pastor's wife role." She needs you to accept her even if she doesn't fill a traditional role.

Don't gossip. Every year while attending a conference for pastor's wives, I would hear different women tell stories of walking around the corner and hearing someone gossip about her, her husband, her family, or others in the church. She would be heartbroken. Gossip should never be on our lips, it tears down people and it tears down churches. And if you hear others gossiping, be bold and put an end to it. She needs you to not gossip.

Be faithful to the church. She loves you and she cares deeply about you and your relationship with God. When you miss church, she misses you. Be faithful to your church and if for some reason you have to miss, such as you're sick or out of town, give her a call and let her know. She needs you to be faithful.

Respect her time. Our pastors and their wives are often "on call" 24/7. They rarely get time away. People stop by the church office and even stop by their homes often. Their phones ring off the hook with calls and texts all day and all night. Most pastors and their wives will say this is okay, they want to serve their flock and be available. But the truth is, we still need to respect their time. If your call or text can wait, let their family have a meal or quiet evening without interruption and connect with them during office or church hours. She needs you to respect her time.

Show your appreciation. Your pastor's wife cares deeply for the church family and works hard. Whether she is in the office or not, whether she leads a ministry or not, whether you see what she does or not, she is working hard. Be intentional with thanking her for what she does. She needs your gratitude.

Offer her grace. Just like you, she is human. She will mess up. She may show up exhausted and a little cranky. She may forget something you've already told her. She may forget to do something you've asked her to. She may forget your birthday. She may not get to say hi and shake your hand one Sunday. She needs your grace.

Our pastor's wives are wonderful ladies who are filling a blessed, beautiful, and hard role as they walk along side their husband to shepherd the flock God has called them to. We need to be women who stand beside them and help them.

Discussion:
1. What can you do this week to help your pastor's wife?
2. How can you be intentional with praying over your pastor's wife?
3. What would you add to this list to help our pastor's wife?




Tuesday, April 23, 2024

Earth Day and the Christian

 By: Rebekah Hargraves


Photo Courtesy of: Noah Buscher


"Then God said, 'Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.'  So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. Then God blessed them, and God said to them, 'Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.'”


~Genesis 1:26-28


Earth Day (which just so happened to be yesterday!) – it’s one of those dates on the calendar that often becomes very controversial very quickly. There are those who will say Earth Day is important because we basically need to worship Mother Nature for all she has given to us. Others say Earth Day is a good reminder for us that we need to save the earth or else it won’t last much longer. Then you have those who will say Earth Day is an anti-God commemoration of a belief system that places the wellbeing of the earth above the wellbeing of man, and therefore Christians should have nothing to do with it.

As is often the case, there is a more balanced, Biblical perspective than any of these other viewpoints present. Let’s dive into Scripture to discover precisely what that viewpoint is!

 

GOD CREATED IT GOOD

The first thing for us to remember is that God was very proud of His work of creation, both the earth itself and everything upon it. At the end of every single day of creation, we read of God making the same observation: “And God saw that it was good.” There is nothing wrong with marveling over the wonders of this earth – as long as we are remembering Who it was Who thought up all those wonders in the first place! 

It is not the biblical position for us to disparage the earth. It is the biblical position for us to view the earth as its Creator did – as being the good handiwork of a good God. And we worship, magnify, and glory God when we enjoy it and stand in awe of its God-fashioned wonders.


GOD SPECIFICALLY TASKED HIS IMAGE BEARERS WITH CARING FOR IT

In Genesis 1:26-28, we read this:

 Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.”  So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. Then God blessed them, and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”

The very reason God created mankind was so that they would “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”  That is our initial God-given purpose.

The biblical position is not one where we turn a blind eye to people and practices that are destroying the wellbeing of this earth. The biblical position is one where we recognize the earth for what it is – God’s good gift and our responsibility as we seek to live as His ambassadors. He has tasked us with replenishing, subduing, and taking dominion over the earth, which means that we are to take good care of it and use it well for the work of our daily lives.


GOD STATED IT WAS CREATED FOR MAN’S WELLBEING

We don’t just take care of the earth and focus on its wellbeing, however. We prioritize its wellbeing, because God created it for our wellbeing.  When we take good care of the earth, we are, in the end, being intentional to take care of ourselves and future generations of God’s image bearers.

If our mission is to subdue the earth and exercise dominion over it, then essentially what we have been tasked with is taking care of it so that it can be used of God to take care of us. This is, for example, why we practice things such as crop rotation and allowing the ground to rest. When we do this, we give the earth time for the soil to be replenished with nutrients. But why is this important? It isn’t just for the sake of the earth itself, just so that we can happily say that the soil is nice and fertile. No, it’s so that that nice and fertile soil will be able to provide for us and our descendants down through time with what we need in order to survive.

This means then that the biblical position is not one where we place the “needs” of the earth above the needs of man.  Just as we do not turn a blind eye to people and practices that are destroying the wellbeing of this earth, likewise we balance that in that we also do not support legislation, people, or practices who would seek to “take care” of the earth to the detriment of mankind. Because first and foremost, the earth is here to provide for mankind so that man can live and thrive and fulfill His God-given missions on the earth.

It is very much a symbiotic relationship between the earth and man. At the end of the day, however, man is God’s image bearer and therefore is above the earth in rank of importance. Having said that, though, there would be no man without the earth, so we do what we can to care well for it – that, too, is our God-given mission.


GOD REVEALS ASPECTS OF HIMSELF THROUGH IT

Part of the reason we are to care well for the earth is because it not only is used by God to provide for our physical wellbeing – it is also used by Him to tend to our spiritual wellbeing!

Paul says in Romans 1:20, “For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse.”    As believers we ought to continue to purpose to care well for the earth, not just so that it can continue to meet our bodies’ needs, but also so that it can continue to point people in the direction of the existence of God.

The biblical position then is not to view the earth as something we can easily just discard, disrespect, disuse, or destroy little by little without grave consequences. The biblical position is to view the earth as an important tool for our ongoing life and wellbeing as well as an important tool to point us to its Creator.


GOD CARES ENOUGH ABOUT IT TO RECREATE IT AT THE END OF TIME

Paul writes in Romans 8:20-22, “For the creation was subjected to futility, not willingly, but because of Him who subjected it in hope;  because the creation itself also will be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the glorious liberty of the children of God. For we know that the whole creation groans and labors with birth pangs together until now.”

God is not disinterested or unconcerned about the effects of the fall upon his creation – the earth included! He is a tender God Who is always concerned about every aspect of His creation – remember He called it good at the beginning of time and cares for it continuously, even up to today.

He cares about it enough, in fact, to promise to recreate it at the end of time. John writes in Revelation 21:1-3,

Now I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away. Also there was no more sea. Then I, John, saw the holy city, New Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from heaven saying, “Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and He will dwell with them, and they shall be His people. God Himself will be with them and be their God.

This earth on which we currently reside will, in fact, one day be no more. But this does not mean that our God will forever and always from that moment on be done with “earth”. Instead, He plans to create a brand new earth, an earth restored back to the way it was always meant to be – the way it was in the Garden of Eden before the fall ever came to pass.

This tells us then that God has a thing for earth, doesn’t it? He prioritizes it and views it as an important aspect of His creation. So, then, should we.

The biblical position is not one where we view the earth as disposable or as if what we do on this earth doesn’t matter because it “will all burn up in the end”. Rather, the biblical position is to declare that, yes, this current earth will one day be destroyed – but that doesn’t mean we want to be the ones responsible at any time for its destruction! The biblical position is one where we readily see and admit that God cares tenderly for His creation – including the earth. So much so that when the end of time comes and this current earth must be destroyed, God will take the time to work to create a brand new one. That’s a big deal! And if this care and concern for the earth is true of God, may it be true of us, as well, as His image bearers and ambassadors!


SO, WHAT DOES ALL THIS MEAN FOR US AS BELIEVERS?

With all this in mind, how then does a Christian approach and view a day like Earth Day?

Well, we take all that we have learned today and combine it together to form the foundation of our theology of the earth and our care for it. This worldview could be summed up in this way:

We were created by God to care for the earth, to replenish, subdue, and take dominion over it. Therefore, it is a sin to contribute to any behavior which would seek to, at best, be negligent towards the earth and, at worst,  to actively destroy aspects of it.  God cares deeply about the earth, going so far as to give us the mission as His ambassadors to do the best we can to care for it, as well. Having said that, however, mankind is the crown of God’s creation. Therefore, it is also wrong to contribute any behavior which places the supposed wellbeing of the earth above the wellbeing of mankind. 


 On a day like Earth Day, may we live out a balanced perspective where we seek to make it our aim to daily care well for the earth that was entrusted to us, while at the same time also making sure to care well for our fellow image bearers. This is the biblical position on Earth Day.


Reflection Questions:


1) What has been your viewpoint on Earth Day in the past?

2) How would you describe a Biblical position on Earth Day?

3) Would you say there are any changes you should make in regards to how you view or care for the earth?